Trauma & PTSD Therapy | Cassandra Monfared LMFT
What I help with

Trauma & PTSD

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Painful or frightening experiences can keep living in the body long after they're over, shaping how you feel, relate to others, and react today. Trauma doesn't have to mean one big, dramatic event; it can also come from a childhood where you didn't feel safe or seen, a relationship that chipped away at your sense of self, or a string of smaller experiences that added up over time.

This can show up in relationship challenges or patterns that no longer serve you: pulling away when things get close, staying too long in situations that hurt you, or reacting to today's stress with a intensity that feels bigger than the moment calls for. Your nervous system learned those responses for a reason, even if they no longer fit the life you're living now.

Together we'll process them at a pace that always feels safe, so the past loosens its grip and stops running the present.

How trauma can show up

Trauma isn't only about what happened. It's about how your nervous system learned to protect you, and how those patterns live on today.

Feeling on guard, jumpy, or unsafe
Intrusive memories, flashbacks, or nightmares
Feeling numb, shut down, or disconnected
Difficulty trusting or feeling close to others
Patterns in relationships that keep repeating
A sense that something's wrong you can't name
Getting upset over things you know don't warrant such a strong reaction
Emotional dysregulation
Difficulty setting boundaries
Feeling "not good enough"

How I help

Safety comes first. We move at your pace, building a foundation of trust and grounding before we ever approach the harder material, and you stay in control the whole way. There's no requirement to relive every detail of what happened before healing can begin.

I specialize in body-based, evidence-supported approaches for trauma: EMDR for reprocessing distressing memories, and Brainspotting for releasing what's held deep in the body and brain. These can reach what words alone often can't, helping your system finally let the past be the past.

As we work, we'll also pay attention to how trauma shows up in your relationships and daily life now, so the changes we make in session actually carry over into how you feel and connect day to day.

Growth on the other side

Healing from trauma isn't only about symptom relief, it can also open the door to what's known as post-traumatic growth: a deeper appreciation for life, stronger relationships, a clearer sense of what matters, and a quiet confidence that you can handle what comes. Many people find that working through what happened to them leaves them not just recovered, but changed for the better.

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